The damsel in distress:
- Waits in her ivory tower for her prince to come and rescue her.
- Lets him make all the plans for the escape.
- Gives all her power away by demurring quietly in the corner while the prince does all the hard work to get her out of there.
- Let’s him conquer her fears by slaying the dragon.
- Then when she is free of the tower, she let’s him take her away to his castle so she can live her life as he wants it to be.
The Warrior Queen:
- Would have never have been locked in the tower in the first place.
- She would have been too busy slaying that dragon for herself.
- When she was done that, she would have taken great pride in sharping her sword again so it was ready for the next battle.
- She would be too busy planning her next adventure to let fear get in the way.
- Then she would head back to her own castle, decorated just as she wanted it and put her feet up content in a job well done.
Which are you?
Yeah, we all want to be the Warrior Queen. She is fierce. She knows what she wants and she don’t take crap from anyone, not even a dragon.
I’ll bet her spark is there, deep inside you waiting to flame forth. I’ll bet somewhere in your arsenal of weapons there is a warrior’s sword ready to by taken up, to be sharpened and oiled and practised with. I’ll even bet that you have a list of adventures, maybe even sacred quests, patiently waiting in your heart of hearts.
You have the will. You have the tools. You have spark.
Now ask yourself again. Which one are you, the damsel in distress or the Warrior Queen?
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